Percaya atau tidak, keburukan dan kekurangan diri yang berhasil diakui dan diterima, akan kehilangan daya rusaknya.
Mungkin banyak dari Anda yang berpikir…
“Keburukan diri kok malah diterima, gimana sih?”
“Bukannya harusnya dilawan dan dihilangkan?”
Hmmm… Sabar, simak dulu biar lebih jelas…
Dalam ilmu Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP) ada sebuah kaidah yang berbunyi “Every behavior has a positive intention (in some context)“, atau setiap tindakan pasti punya maksud positif dalam konteks tertentu. Sebagai catatatan, positif atau negatif di sini, artinya menguntungkan atau tidak menguntungkan.
Selain itu ada juga yang mengatakan “Every behavior has utility and usefulness (in some context).” Setiap perilaku punya kegunaan dan manfaatnya tersendiri dalam konteks tertentu.
Contohnya gimana?
Begini…
Seorang pencuri, dia mencuri sesuatu, kira-kira apa alasannya?
Misalnya, dia butuh uang buat makan anaknya, ini adalah maksud yang positif. Atau dia ingin memperkaya dirinya, ini juga niat yang positif, dalam konteksnya sendiri. Walaupun tentunya konteks ini bertentangan dengan hukum yang berlaku, tapi sifatnya positif (menguntungkan) setidaknya bagi si pelaku tadi.
Bisa dimengerti? Hati-hati jangan salah paham ya…
Lalu apa maksud positif dari perilaku buruk diri kita?
Kalau diteliti bisa banyak sekali, tapi salah satu tujuannya setidaknya adalah supaya diri kita menjadi seimbang.
Selama ini kita melakukan hal positif dan negatif, tapi hanya mau mengakui yang positifnya saja. Sementara yang negatifnya, meskipun kita lakukan terus, kita tetap lebih sering menyangkalnya ketimbang jujur mengakuinya.
Bagian diri kita sebenarnya butuh kita akui keberadaannya. Nah, kalau selama ini kita enggan mengakui keberadaan si sisi negatif kita, ya dia ngambek dong. Akhirnya dia pun menciptakan sabotase di dalam diri kita, sehingga jadi negatif beneran.
Untuk apa dia mensabotase? Ya cuma untuk kita perhatikan dan kita akui saja keberadaannya. Kalau sudah bisa kita akui dan kita terima, maka sabotase diri tadi tidak lagi terjadi sehingga daya rusaknya pun berhenti.
Selama ini kita suka sebel kalau ada tokoh-tokoh baik di film yang dianaktirikan, seperti Cinderella misalnya. Tapi, usut punya usut, ternyata kita malah suka menganaktirikan salah satu bagian diri kita sendiri, yang terkadang juga punya maksud baik.
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